How to Prepare for a Portrait Session
Getting ready for a portrait session can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. As a portrait photographer in New York City, I’ve worked with clients of all kinds, and the best results always come from good prep. Whether it’s your first shoot or your tenth, here’s what to know before stepping in front of the camera.
Start With the Intention, Not the Outfit
Before you even think about what to wear, start with the why. Why are you doing this shoot? Is it for your brand, your dating profile, your family, or just for yourself?
The purpose behind the session helps shape everything else—location, lighting, posing, and even your expression. Once you know what you’re trying to say with the photo, the rest of the decisions get a whole lot easier.
Clients sometimes ask if they should smile or stay serious. My answer is always the same. Let’s decide based on what the photo is for, not what you think looks “professional.” Authenticity shows up better than forced perfection.
What to Wear and What to Avoid
I get this one a lot, and here’s my rule: Wear something that feels like you, but a little more polished. Think elevated comfort. If you’re not comfortable, it’s going to show in the photos.
Solid colors usually work best. Avoid busy patterns, graphics, or anything with bold logos. Bring a couple of options, especially if the shoot is longer than 30 minutes. Neutrals, earth tones, and textures tend to photograph well, but if you’re someone who wears bold color every day, don’t mute yourself for the camera.
And yes, if this is for something professional, that doesn’t mean you have to default to stiff button-ups. Think about how you want to show up. We can always tweak as we go.
Trust the Process, Then Let It Go
I’ve shot portraits in studios, on sidewalks, in backyards, and in places we found five minutes before the shutter clicked. The constant across all of them? The best images came from people who allowed themselves to relax into the process.
You don’t have to know how to pose. That’s my job. I’ll guide you. You don’t need to practice expressions in the mirror or bring a Pinterest board of “angles.” What you do need is a willingness to be present, to breathe, and to let the camera see you—not the version of you trying to “perform.”
Every portrait session is a collaboration. Show up ready to be real, and I’ll take care of the rest.
Tymel Young is a New York based photographer, videographer, and content creator. Working with brands and personalities of all sizes across the globe
